Ok. As I promised, I was going to write something about this topic. Here we go... So why are so many people so lonely in this world ? We have a lot of people living around us, we're always around people, and yet people often tell me that they are very lonely. Even if they have lots of friends in their circle, still they are lonely.
I really thought about this and came to one conclusion - that most of us are very self centered people and that's one of the reasons people feel lonely. People do not want to think about other or even do something for others.
Being self centered kills us, we only want things for ourself and thats why when no one pays attention we feel like we're completely alone in this world.
Look, this life is not about us.
God told us to "love our neighbor as ourselves " but the problem is that we don't really love our neighbors or ourselves..... WHY ? Because we don't know ourselves and that's why we cant truly love ourselves. We love our body and we love to have materialistic things for ourselves, but we don't know ourselves for who we are within..... we don't understand ourselves, we don't know what we are fully capable of, we don't know our potential to the fullest, and we don't see ourselves with in......
1. We must find out who we are and what we were born to do on this earth, and only God knows you and can reveal that to you.... so ask Him.
2. When we will know who we are, we will be able to love ourselves and start loving our neighbor as we love ourselves.
3. We must start living for others. We must serve others, and yes I know what you thinking - that people don't care and that people will still treat you wrong, but do not pay attention to that. We have to do our part and not worry about people mistreating you. I guarantee you it will happen but one day there will be people whose life will change because of you.
4. Live your live for others and you will never feel lonely, because when you start serving people they will start serving you back, when you show them real love they will be transformed by it and start showing love in return....
The reason you are lonely today is maybe because you never lived your life to serve others. Most likely, your life has always been about yourself and your family, but mainly about your job, you car, your house, your education, your money .......
So stop and look around and see who needs help, who needs attention...... and go and help them.
I'm not talking about homeless people here or people in 3rd world countries, I'm talking about regular people that we see around us everyday. People at our jobs, school, roads, malls and etc.
So start today.............. part 2 coming soon.
GOD BLESS.
p.s. thanks to Chris aka Audicid for help with editing... ...
2 comments:
haha u sed im not talking bout people in third world countires... lol but ive been just studyin people. everyone i talk to. n most of them theyre all lonely. its their motive for everything. its like this starving need inside of them that they need to fill with something or someone. if they cant find the someone... they usually turn to alcohol or drugs to forget how lonely they are.
people need to be comfortable with themselves and ur rite they need to start focusing on others. LEARN HOW TO BE ALONE. n part of that is learning how to never be alone cuz ur always with God. lol tricky i know.
good blog.
thank you. Yes we definitely always have God with us and IN us ( in us is the key), and lots of time we forget that just because we so focused again on ourselves...
yes drugs and alcohol is just a trap and you end up in the worst position when you started.....
reason i mentioned 3rd world countries because people think that only they need help, and forget about their neighbors, friends and families..... if you cant help someone close to you i don't think you can do much if you go to 3rd world country, yes you will help for some time but what about when you leave them???
thanks again....
God bless.
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