Why are people so lonely ? part 1.

Ok. As I promised, I was going to write something about this topic. Here we go... So why are so many people so lonely in this world ? We have a lot of people living around us, we're always around people, and yet people often tell me that they are very lonely. Even if they have lots of friends in their circle, still they are lonely.

I really thought about this and came to one conclusion - that most of us are very self centered people and that's one of the reasons people feel lonely. People do not want to think about other or even do something for others.

Being self centered kills us, we only want things for ourself and thats why when no one pays attention we feel like we're completely alone in this world.

Look, this life is not about us.

God told us to "love our neighbor as ourselves " but the problem is that we don't really love our neighbors or ourselves..... WHY ? Because we don't know ourselves and that's why we cant truly love ourselves. We love our body and we love to have materialistic things for ourselves, but we don't know ourselves for who we are within..... we don't understand ourselves, we don't know what we are fully capable of, we don't know our potential to the fullest, and we don't see ourselves with in......

1. We must find out who we are and what we were born to do on this earth, and only God knows you and can reveal that to you.... so ask Him.

2. When we will know who we are, we will be able to love ourselves and start loving our neighbor as we love ourselves.

3. We must start living for others. We must serve others, and yes I know what you thinking - that people don't care and that people will still treat you wrong, but do not pay attention to that. We have to do our part and not worry about people mistreating you. I guarantee you it will happen but one day there will be people whose life will change because of you.

4. Live your live for others and you will never feel lonely, because when you start serving people they will start serving you back, when you show them real love they will be transformed by it and start showing love in return....

The reason you are lonely today is maybe because you never lived your life to serve others. Most likely, your life has always been about yourself and your family, but mainly about your job, you car, your house, your education, your money .......

So stop and look around and see who needs help, who needs attention...... and go and help them.

I'm not talking about homeless people here or people in 3rd world countries, I'm talking about regular people that we see around us everyday. People at our jobs, school, roads, malls and etc.

So start today.............. part 2 coming soon.

GOD BLESS.

p.s. thanks to Chris aka Audicid for help with editing... ...

Think.....

Today i went to "rock park" I had a great time just sitting down reading the Bible and just thinking.

Thinking is very important part of our lives...... thinking is very powerful and sometimes can help us to grow or opposite can slow us down and ruin our whole day.....

Depression is a thought..... it comes to people and ruins them.

We have to be in full control of our mind otherwise it will take full control over us.

Start controlling your thoughts, its also important to control what goes in to our mind, what do we watch, what do we listen to, who do we talk to, and which books, magazines, etc we read..... Remember everything you put in to your mind one day it will come out, so start controlling what comes in to your mind.

Also it's great to sit and to think about life, few questions everyone should ask themselves :

1. Who am I ?

2. Where am I going in life ?

3. What should i do to become better person and how can I benefit this world ?

So slow down a lil and think about your life, you have a lot of potential in you and sometimes we are so busy that we miss the whole point of our life....

Life is short so don't ruin it.

If you don't know where you going in life just ask God..... He will guide you, He will show you who you really are.

God bless.

My Life.... June 2009.

Ok so I'm back to my blog and ill try to write them as often as i can.

I do have a lot to say, my mind always working, those who know me they know that I'm always thinking.......

So i started to do this videos of my life, and i want to record them almost every day just so people can see that living a good christian life is not boring at all.

Living for God is living in freedom. Yes you might say "you cant do this or that etc.... " but guess what I don't care about this or that, I live my life today for my future, and I absolutely love it.

I care about next generations and what kind of path ill prepare for them.....

And by the way if you care about "this or that" part in your life you still kinda weak .... self control is big part that will help us to build our life and enjoy it.

A man that allows himself everything is the man who cant control himself, his emotions, his will and so on......

"You live once so don't ruin it" thats how I look at my life......

So back to videos.... first video i did was yesterday June 10. 2009. There is nothing fake in it, it's all real deal and people that are in it they are people in my life.

Info about me: I'm 25 years old live in jersey, i pastor Holy Fire church, currently working on my clothing line with my partner.

There is a lot more to say but i'll do that in the next blog or so......

so enjoy the video.

Please post comments or questions that you might have.

God bless.